It sounds obvious, but if you don’t get off your butt and approach women you aren’t going to have any numbers to call at the end of the day.

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Brian Caniglia
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 There is a guy out there that attracts w0men so easily you’d think it was magic. Whenever he goes out… at the grocery store, at work, or at the bar… women turn around to look at him, they go out of their way to be around him hoping that he will talk to them. The guy has absolutely no problem getting dates any time he wishes. With the ladies, he has it made.

The funny thing is that he’s a lot like you. He has similar looks, he’s about the same height, drives a similar car, and makes the same amount of money.

So what’s so different about this guy? Why do all the women want to be with him?

There are 5 differences between this guy and the guy’s that wish they could be like this guy. Surprisingly, it’s the little things that make the big difference. Little things that are completely within your control.

>> DIFFERENCE # 1: When he walks in people notice

This man walks into a room with confidence that you can sense. A type of confidence that can’t be faked. His head is held high, his gaze is calm and unapologetic. He doesn’t glance around like a nervous freshman at homecoming to see if anyone is looking at him. Rather, he expects people to be looking at him and he is comfortable with this.

His grooming is impeccable and his clothes are neat and fashionable, not gaudy or outdated. He takes pride in his appearance (however humble or average it may be) and it shows. His walk is deliberate and even-paced - never rushed or nervous.

If you didn’t know any better, from your first impression anyway, you would think that this guy has everything. But, he doesn’t. He’s just like you.

He knows that you don’t have to have a perfect life to be perfectly confident.

>> DIFFERENCE # 2: He talks and people listen

When he says something it’s not to get attention. He’s not worried about being the life of the crowd or talking just to hear his voice. Because of this, when he says something people look at him and listen since they know that there will be more than just nonsense coming out of his mouth.

He never talks trash. He knows that this makes him look petty, untrustworthy, and insecure.

He acts natural. He doesn’t try to be something he’s not. He has “that something,” that charisma, that personal magnetism that comes with being genuine and congruent. People are drawn to this quality and admire it.

He knows that people can sense when people are being fake, trying too hard, or trying to give a false impression so he avoids these things at all costs. Though it sounds cheesy, sometimes he consciously, deliberately centers himself to be sure that he’s “being real” and not trying to impress others.

>> DIFFERENCE # 3: He’s a doer, not a thinker

At the bar there is a beautiful woman and, of course, there is a group of guys in the corner who want her number. They appear to be working up the courage to start a conversation with her. It’s difficult though because she is with a friend who won’t leave her alone so that they can make their move. Meanwhile, This guy notices the woman and, in spite of the fact that she is with a friend and you would think she is way out of his league given his looks, he walks right up, introduces himself the same way he would to anyone, and begins asking the same normal questions you would ask anyone that you want to know better:

  Where are you from?
  What do you do?
  What are you doing at a place like this?

Sure, it’s not great conversation but this man knows that it’s better to act than to wait for the perfect moment and the perfect thing to say. When most men approach her and try to talk this woman isn’t receptive but this guy, because he is so obviously genuine, doesn’t put of that needy and, paradoxically, condescending vibe that most other guys do. She likes that.

>> DIFFERENCE # 4: He’s easy to talk to

During the conversation he’s calm, relaxed. If you didn’t know any better, you would think he was talking to an old friend from way back.

He keeps the conversation light-hearted, friendly, and pleasant by smiling and maintaining eye contact. He’s not cracking great jokes or sweeping her off her feet with Don Juanesque romantic banterings. He’s more or less just genuinely interested in listening to her and she likes that.

But, perhaps the most important thing is that there is absolutely no hint that a “pick-up” is in progress. If you were observing from across the room you’d think he was only talking to her because he was killing time, you may even think that he was married by how relaxed and not needy he was.

You may even say to yourself “That guy has no game, he’s doing it all wrong”

>> DIFFERENCE # 5: He knows what to say

At the end of the night he knows what he wants. He wants to get to know that woman he was talking to better. Some guys would silently wish to themselves that they could see her again, curse themselves for not knowing how to ask, miss the opportunity, go home, and fall asleep wondering if they will ever run into that incredible girl again.

Not this guy, he understands that if he wants something then he needs to do everything in his power to get it.

These are the exact words he uses:

“I had a great time talking to you tonight. I’d like to see you again. Can I get your number?”

Lame? Canned? Predictable? Yes, definitely. But, oddly enough, it works. It worked this time, it worked in the past, and it will continue to work in the future.

This guy doesn’t wonder how to ask, he doesn’t try to come up with the perfect line to get her number. Asking IS simple and he doesn’t make things so complicated that he misses opportunities.

That’s it. Five differences. Too simple? Perhaps, but if it were this simple, wouldn’t it be worth the effort to give it a shot and find out?

Your goal should be to become this man. It’s very, very possible. After all, it’s only 5 things.

Print out this article, read through it often. Maybe twice a day. See if things don’t start happening for you.

Talk to you later,

Brian
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Throughout history, women have been regarded as multi-taskers and having the ability to handle many things at once. While this may be true, many women in today’s society are having trouble balancing their many titles at once. These titles are employee, mother, and wife. It has become an extremely difficult task to find time to manage all of these roles because life and work has become so demanding. Many women find that the art of balancing all of these things at once has become something of a juggling performance. There are things that women can do to help master all of these roles and this article is geared towards just that, mastering the art of juggling their time between their work, their children, and their home.

To master this concept, women should first take a close look at what is most important in life. You should take a few moments to reflect on the direction your life is taking, this means take a look at all aspects. Include every aspect of your job, your home life, and the time your children need out of your day. Mentally outline which aspects are most important to you, by doing so you will be better prepared to take the next steps.

When you are looking at your job, you should consider many things. Do you have the ability to work at home? In other words, do you have a position that could easily be done within your home? If so this may be an excellent option for you, consider this aspect and talk with your boss about it. This would allow you to spend more time with your children, your partner, and within your home, not to mention saving you money on gas and childcare. Another option may be to cut back the number of hours you work, this could cause some financial worries, however if you carefully plan your budget you may find that you would be able to cut back on some expenses and easily manage fewer hours.

One very important thing, make sure you do not think you have to do it all. Many women feel that the burden is on them to have to take care of everything. Include the other parent and do not be afraid to share some of the tasks. This will result in a number of things, first it would lead to less stress on both parents and it could lead to a much better relationship for the entire family because of the reduce stress. This leads to making time for everyone; some of the tasks you undertake can be easily combined. This will lead to time saving efforts and the chance to bond with your family. Cook meals together, if the kids are too young at least have them in the same room. Make time for a walk each evening this will add a bonding experience as well as exercise for everyone.

Mastering the every day role of mother, wife, and professional can seem like a difficult task, but if you think about it all of these roles are extremely rewarding and if carefully thought out and planned can lead to a very enjoyable lifestyle.

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